Controversial Ex-BBNaija Housemate, Tolanibaj Shares Her Nature While Dating
Former Big Brother Naija star TolaniBaj may not have won the show but she has remained in the spotlight courtesy of her controversial social media takes particularly about dating, marriage, life etc. She currently co-hosts the Bahd and Boujee podcast.
During her last appearance as an all-star housemate at the Big Brother house, she was hated by viewers for trying to form a relationship with hot housemate Neo. She was seen always trying to prevent him from connecting with other ladies and would be seen having heated arguments with him if he so much as spend time with a lady.
Now in her latest interview with Clout Radio, Tolanibaj shares details of how she really is while in a relationship. Recall that the BBnaija ship with Neo saw her taking the lead but she has revealed that’s not how she is in real life. According to her, she is usually submissive once she starts dating.
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In her words, “When I don’t have a guy in my life right, I’m in my masculine energy. I do everything with or without a man. But when I do have a man in my life, I let him take the lead and I have to constantly remember that ‘baby girl, relax in your feminine energy, you don’t have to be too forward.”
TBN finds it worthy to note that Tolanibaj might just be answering questions to make her interview interesting because when it came to her ship with Neo, it is quite clear who was wearing the pants in the relationship and it is not Neo. Except the former housemate has made a life-changing transition.
In the interview with Clout Radio, she further revealed that she finds it liberating to have a man doing things for her particularly the one she would have done if she was single. Talking to the host, she noted that she even has no pretend not to know how to do something’s so her man can do them for her.
Tolanibaj gave an instance of changing a car tyre. “Even if I know how to do something, I’d still pretend and be like a damsel in distress like ‘Hey babe, how do you do that?’ when deeply I can do it. In fact, if it’s to change a tyre I can change tyres,” she said, then continued, “Okay I’m lying, I can’t change a tyre but if it has to come to that I will learn it.”
But I just let men take the lead when they’re in my life, but if they’re not in my life and I have to be independent I will step into that role like a boss, she finished.
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