Dear Gist With TBN, I have noticed a few toxic traits from significant other. The truth is that I am very much in love with her and I want to marry her but there are a few things she does that make me wonder if she loves me or whether she is with me because of money.
We started dating in June 2023 and since then I have tried to make her happy. I bought wigs, clothes and accessories for her. I also bought her an iPhone 13 last December but since then, she has taken to ignoring me and not replying to my texts, and if I call, she will end it.
My significant other will continue like this for weeks until I go to her house to beg. Sometimes she gets over it pretty soon and sometimes she does not and sometimes it takes days and weeks for us to get back on track. This has happened a lot of times and I have lost count.
Currently we had an argument about one of her friends who she says is into hookups. I told her to limit the closeness between them and she blocked me. Meanwhile, I bought that iPhone for her. I have also bought an Android phone for her when we first met.
ALSO READ: Did She Cheat? My Girlfriend Left Breast Is Bigger Than The Right Breast
Again, apart from billing me, my significant other has not even tried getting me a gift. All she does is take and continue taking. Because I love her, I have tried to be supportive in any way I can but she keeps draining me to the point that I might not have sometimes.
I don’t want to leave her because I love her and she has aborted twice for me. But if this keeps happening, I will have no choice but to leave her. Does she love me or am I just wasting my time?