Dear gist with TBN, I must say that I never envisaged sleeping with anyone that is not my husband. But we are in an open marriage now and I am completely enjoying the freedom it gives me instead of worrying all the time about my husband’s whereabouts.
When I married my husband in 2018, it didn’t take time for him to start misbehaving chasing everything in skirt even while I was pregnant. Four years later and with three kids (the second pregnancy is twins), his cheating was out of control.
I developed high blood pressure as a result and had to be on medication for a while to get it under control. But my husband didn’t care instead, he intensified his whoring behaviour and even stopped sleeping with me. One day, he told me about Open marriage and asked me if we should open our marriage.
He asked me to think about it and give him an answer. I spent days reading about it uindirecty asking friends their takes about it. After everything I agreed to open our marriage and it is the greatest blessings of all time. For me, I had exes and guys I wish I could I sleep with and I have now slept with them.
I won’t lie navigating an open marriage was difficult at first because I usually fall in love but nos i’ve learn not to attach feelings. My blood pressure is down and I can sleep better. I am glowing and I look very young now instead of overworked and tired.
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I have even arranged girls for my husband sometimes and we even had threesomes so our sex life alone is greatly improved. Do I regret it? At least for now, I don’t and I am no longer jealous of my husband. We have gotten closer and closer than ever.
I am not recommending it to anyone because you know men are jealous and cannot be predicted. So thread carefully if you intend to broach the topic.